The Flame Within

For the past two weeks, my husband has been in Korea, and it has reminded me of something I don’t think about often.

Life just isn’t the same when your best friend is gone.

We go through our days so accustomed to our spouses being there that it’s easy to take their presence for granted. But when they’re away, you suddenly notice all the little things you miss. The conversations. The laughter. The quiet moments. Simply knowing they’re there.

One of the things I’m most grateful for is how intentionally present my husband is. Whether he’s halfway around the world or sitting at our kitchen table, he makes time for our family. He always calls. He always checks in. He always makes us feel like we’re a priority.

These past two weeks have also given me a small glimpse into something much deeper. It has stirred a greater compassion in my heart for widows and widowers. Being apart for a short season is difficult enough. I can’t begin to imagine what it must be like to lose your lifelong companion. It has reminded me to pray for those carrying that kind of loneliness.

If your spouse is sitting across from you tonight, thank God for that gift. None of us are promised tomorrow. Love them well. Don’t overlook the ordinary moments. They are often the ones we miss the most when they’re gone.

I’m looking forward to having my best friend back home. God’s design for biblical marriage is the best!

Blessings, Crystal